Thursday, August 20, 2015

If a Person Hurts you, they will Hate you Forever

The reason that those who have hurt you in the past will continue to hate you is because in their subconscious minds they know they did wrong.

To admit to being wrong and apologising will increase their feeling of self-loathing so they avoid saying sorry. Their coping mechanism will be to place the fault of their behaviour on you so that they can feel justified about the hurt their caused. This is called an external locus of control and shows an immature personality type. They always blame other things or people for the situation they find themselves in.

Forgiving these people won’t do a damn thing for them, BUT it will free you from the negativity that they put on you by their actions, their thoughts and their words to other people. It will free you from the bondage of bitterness, disappointment, hate, hurt, anger and every other negative emotion that keeps you bound to this uncaring, self-centred mother fucker. Let them go. Freeze them out of your life. They will only make your life path that much more difficult to walk. Even if you have to fake it until you make it – make that person(s) mean nothing to you. Turn them into just Joe Blogs who you do not know and you will be able eventually to walk past them and not see them. That will piss them off even more – so their hate increases until it swallows them whole. It is impossible for a hateful person to experience any happiness.

That is their punishment.